Perfect Timing

It has been pointed out to me that I don’t share a lot of the hubster online. Want to know why? He doesn’t want to be online. Boom. Simple. I can respect that.

But, sometimes he needs a shout out!

Since the beginning of our time together, flowers have been an issue. He didn’t think cut flowers were worth it because they died. I told him it didn’t matter, I kill potted plants too. The point, the purpose, is to enjoy them in their moments. They don’t have to last forever. They are just to make me smile.

Then, ah, poor, young, foolish hubster, back before he had the label of hubster, would buy me HIS favorite flowers. Although nice, it was a little bit of a let down to never get MY favorite flowers. Yes, they are red roses. So classic, so ordinary, so boring. Oh well! I go against the grain on most things, I’m allowed to like red roses! Because 1) I like the color red! And 2) a rose is a great flower, beautiful, soft, tender, and also draws blood when not handled correctly! I love the symbolism to life goals there 🙂 Anyway, so then we had a talk about flower preference and alternating flowers in the house.

When we go out together shopping he asks regularly if I want flowers. No, I don’t want flowers when we are getting groceries. I get the groceries the majority of the time. If I want to get flowers while getting groceries, I’ll get them. I won’t get them with him while shopping. Call me fickle, it just loses something there. Do it to surprise me. Do it because you thought it would make me smile. Do it because you were thinking of me. Don’t offer when we are buying toilet paper together.

Tonight I was losing my temper a bit at a meeting, in front of people. I think I reigned it in ok. I don’t like bullies. And I don’t like . . well, we’ll stop there or I’ll get all riled up again. I had to run an errand after the meeting. I stopped at McDonalds to go against my healthy eating and get fries, emotional support fries. But, I got crappy fries. I only ate a few. What a let down. Then I got home.

Tonight I am thankful that the hubster and a kiddo got me flowers tonight. They didn’t know the meeting would go south for me. They were just out, saw the flowers, AGREED ON SOMETHING TOGETHER, and had flowers waiting for me at home ❤️❤️ Perfect night for flowers! ❤️❤️